This isn't about you, founder. Build your social site around a community, not an individual.

Redditors

I was recently having coffee with Amanda Peyton of MessageParty and we were dicussing ways to build up her not-yet-launched geo-blogging service. If reddit taught me anything, it's that community matters. I strongly suggested she and her team get actively involved with the community from day zero; be a part of the community and like any good party host, make sure everyone is having a good time (and keep out the spammers). But don't make it about you; great social sites aren't about their founders, they're about their communities.

People will continue to write stories about the tech entrepreneurs who are changing the world (pity they're still mostly more young white dudes, but that too is changing) -- they'll even make ludicrous claims to that end. Let them.

This isn't about you, founder. And I'm saying this as the co-founder of reddit who typically was the face of the company and does more than his fair share of shameless self-promotion. (See?)

Well, just a few days after that coffee, my Internet was clogged with stories about Kevin Rose's Twitter usage, the announcement of Kevin's departure, and finally "RIP Digg". And that was all just on TechCrunch.

Did that much really change at digg the instant after Kevin announced he was leaving? Enough to declare it dead? After Steve and I left reddit in 2009, the site's traffic exploded. I'll leave it to you to decide between correlation and causation.

No one used reddit because Steve or I started it. No one uses Foursquare because of Dennis or Naveen; Twitter because of Biz, Evan, or Jack; Airbnb because of (do you even know the names of those founders?) Nathan, Joe, or Brian. The list goes on. Cult of personality may sell clothing lines, but it shouldn't define your website -- especially if it's community-powered.

Sure, it helps to start a new project with a following (and I think we all know Kevin is going to strike gold with whatever his next project is) and even hipmunk has Ashton Kutcher as an investor, but your product had better come first.

I've already explained why I thought digg v4 would fail and earned the dubious honor of having Mike Arrington make up stuff about me, but there's a fabulous lesson here for the many startup founders who come asking me for advice on how to build a community like reddit.

Don't make it about you. Create a mascot if you must and push that into the spotlight; you've got to get back to work.

The Big Idea Event Gets Bigger (and I get quoted making a joke that @ZachWeiner hopefully approves of)

Some critics claim SXSW has simply grown too large. Yet that hasn't discouraged attendance: SXSW continues to set records during these trying economic times, even after a ticket price increase.

At a session on hockey-stick growth, Ben Huh, the owner of the I Can Has Cheezburger? network of websites, pointed out that this year's conference drew more than 20,000 people, up from 15,000 in 2010. At the same panel, Hugh Forrest, events director for SXSW Interactive, said he doesn't like to talk about numbers. It's not how many people attend, but the quality of the conference.

"SXSW is what you make of it," Forrest said.

That led Alexis Ohanian, co-founder of Reddit, to remark: "It's not the size of the conference that matters, but how you use it."

via dailyfinance.com

Thanks, L.A. Lorek, for attaching my name to that quote in the eternal record that is the Internet.